Question: Michelle, For years I’ve poured myself into everyone else — family, work, community — and now I don’t even know who I am without them needing me. I used to feel called to something, but I’ve lost that sense of purpose. How do I find it again?
Michelle J Says: Purpose doesn’t disappear — it gets buried under noise. Quiet the demands for a moment and ask: What stirs your spirit, even when no one’s watching? Start there. Purpose isn’t found in perfection or productivity — it’s rediscovered in peace. Give yourself permission to step back, breathe, and listen. Your calling hasn’t left you — it’s waiting for you to slow down long enough to hear it again.





